So, this isn't a conversation I expected to have with my five-year-old last night, but she was very serious and not upset or overly anxious. Just curious. I'm thinking I'm not going to read more into it than I really need to.
Brooklynn: "Who's going to take care of us if you die?"
Me: "I'm not going to die!"
Brooklynn: "Yeah, but if you do, who's going to take care of us?"
Me: "Well, your Daddy will."
Brooklynn: "Okay, but who's going to take care of me if Daddy dies?"
Me: "I will."
Brooklynn: "What if you both die?"
Me: "We're not going to both die at the same time!"
Brooklynn: "You will when you're a hundred!"
Me: "Okay, fair enough. But you'll be sixty-four, then. You will definitely be able to take care of yourself."
Brooklynn: "No, I won't. Who will take care of me when you die?"
Me: "Well, if Daddy and I both die, Uncle Eric and Uncle Vince will become your parents."
Brooklynn: "WHAT!!! But they're both boys! I need a Mommy!"
And then she wandered away, neither perplexed nor upset, just having vocalized her opinion. Leaving Cory and I to wonder if we're still going to have a 65 year old Brooklynn climbing into our bed in the middle of the night when we're 100 and on death's door.
And leaving me to wonder if I actually ever let Uncle Vincent know that we have a will and it stipulates that my youngest brother is to be appointed guardian of our children. Did I ever mention that to him? That when he married my brother he was signing on to guardianship of four kids should Cory and I perish in some crazy accident when we turn 100. Might want to revisit the old will. Just in case! Because that's a pretty long-term committment!
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